Thursday, November 30

100 Tears away

Some losses are worth enough, that it’s okay to cry over them, time and again. I like to think it’s honoring them, showing respect, towards something that was yours, and is unfortunately no more.

Coincidently, two random sitcoms mentioned the 5 stages of grief. You know the jargon : Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance.

Denied, and stood strong.

Yelled and screamed.

Bargained. Perhaps.

Depression. Not sure if this is over, or yet to come.

Acceptance. Definitely not there yet.

This.is.scary.

I was really hoping this was some mushy jargon for the TV. Please tell me I'm just tired and thinking too much - and this stuff is only true for sitcoms.

I'd hate to accept. Because then there'd be another stage. Defeat.

2 comments:

Shishir said...

it's all topsy turvy to me..neways.....i was just thinking it would definitely be fun to interview u (not to be taken in a strict sense) ..only if thinks its not as vile an idea ??

awaiting ur riposte.. @!

bye
_S

sherene said...

"Because then there'd be another stage. Defeat."

If we keep this stage of grief in perspective always, it'd make us wiser about which battles are worth fighting for.